For guys. Things are not very sunny either. Girls are constantly breaking guy's hearts. We feel it is a way to get back at them. Alternatively, most of the time, they are not up to your standards. It is a horrible thing for guys to find out but they are better at covering their feeling then girls are. So therefore, you just want to love someone without having feelings because if you do, then you know you will most likely end up broken hearted.

- Rokhsor

Well Karen, and I had started this conversation about a while ago, so I would basically would like to my full on perspective to it and talk about what Rokhsor wrote about the original Quote/post.


At that moment that i gave my opinion and thought to Karen, I had been in a weird and difficult position. where i had "seen /and was seeing” how difficult a relationship could be and i was reflecting on the actual meaning and the feelings of that mysterious and "DUMB" word called LOVE. When being in the middle and seeing how a relation of people could turn out and reflecting on what has happened in the past with people and also the conversation i had in the past, I believed that it would be the best thing to be able to connect and help Karen understand my position. and everyone can and will have their position and will be in their place where they stand. everything depends on who a person is and who they meet and are in a relationship with.



Their many things that people do that damage many people and in many ways. for example, people getting back at each other as Rokhsor explained. that is a great example of how people intentionally hurt and damage other for a reason, a reason that makes no sense. that is an action that is not necessary but is always bound to happen and it always does in many places and in relationships; between friends, people dating ect.

Why is it that many decide to hurt somebody rather than taking a more reasonable approach instead of taking a route where a friendship gets involved, where people get hurt and something always goes wrong in any little way that later results in bigger damage? CAN PEOPLE CONTROL THEIR ACTIONS BEFORE DOING SOMETHING AND LATER REGRETTING THE BIG AND HORRIBLE MISTAKE THAT THEY JUST COMMITTED? WHY IS SO DIFFICULT TO THINK BEFORE ACTING AND SPEAKING?! Many people do not have that in control and can’t think before they act. Proof of this is all the mistakes that someone has int heir life, that they later regret and find it to be a mistake that they could have avoided!